Overhaulin' - what to do with the guy who is after my wife?

what to do with the guy who is after my wife?

hi, i found out my wife has recieved a hand phone from this malaysia guy, and it had lead me and my wife to divorce( soon) shes works at a pub and she had told this guy shes has a husband and child but this fellow still keep going after my wife, and this guy has more money to spend, maybe, and when he gets drunk, he will shoult like as hes got lots of money , i really think of whacking him up with my friend. and i going to work as used car sales exec, no more driving job as it never earn much, pls advice , thank you my wife is staying at her sis house, an iam all alone, my wife has accept the offer, and shes like in love with him.

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Personally I would kill him, or shoot him up pretty bad. But that's me, I wouldn't take that shit from nobody. I have laid down once before and it will never happen again. If someone threatens my family or marriage and the relationship of me and my baby, they will pay dearly. I promise!
Violate is not the answer. I say trust your wife. It takes two to play the game or for it to go anywhere. If your wife doesn't take his offer, then you have nothing to worry about. Just trust in your marriage and it will all work out at the end. Good luck.
If your wife doesn't want the attention from the guy, she would tell him to lay off and make it clear. It isn't really the guys fault so beating him down isn't going to solve a thing. You need to be talking to your wife about this. I work with all women and have for the past 10 years - I have been hit on many times and it is MY job, not my wife's, to set the boundaries and stay committed to the marriage. Soon enough they get the hint and go somewhere else to look for love. Basically, don't be a jerk and beat up the guy. That won't get you anywhere but in jail for assault. If he has money, he has attorneys. Grow a pair and handle this like a real man - real men don't fight their way out of every situation, that's in the movies. If your wife isn't leading the guy on then stop the silly jealous behavior. Women like confident men.
You are divorcing your wife? She is no longer your wife.
It is hard but only you will suffer if you beat his ass. Is he forcing your wife, if not, it is her fault. Woman get hit on all the time, If there going to cheat there are going to cheat.
walk away get on with your life dude
Keep your mind busy with the right focus and thoughts, not anger & vengence. Be involved with meaningful activities. Attend a church to find the true meaning of life and seek peace if possible. You seem overwhelmed by bitterness & jealousy. The temper in you may get overboard if you do not curb it. The problem is your wife's heart. Show her love constantly despite all odds. Focus on changing yourself for the betterment. There are times when you do have to let go & move on. Let God handle all injustice. Forgive & move on in peace. Ask yourself: What do you gain from whacking the other guy? Jail, fines, disgrace, more hatred & bitterness... Self-destruction. Is that what you want? You are going to have a new job You are going to have a change in life. Let time heal your hurts and pain. Let the past make you a better, not bitter person. Seek counselling if needed. (1800-2220000 ComCare 24hrs) Take care! I wish you well here......:)